A great relationship doesn’t happen
because of all the love you had in the beginning…
but how well you continue building love until the end.

-Unknown

Rome wasn’t built in a day!

If you seriously think you MUST build it in a day then realize the compromise you’re intending:

You’re choosing not to build Rome…
You’re choosing to compromise the profound complexity and beauty which Rome would entail.

Here is today’s Secret Strategy-

Personal relationships aren’t built in a day either. They require time… They require:

• CONTEMPLATION- How do I feel about myself being with him?
  
• CONSISTENCY- Time and again, show up ─
  

Confident (I deserve love)…
Curious (What’s his perspective on this?)… 
Kind (I speak in support of myself and let him save face!)

• COMMITMENT- Loyalty and trust are non-negotiable.

If you want it all to happen in just one day, go for it; but know you are not building epic, enduring Rome, founded April 21, 753 BC. 

And yes, Rome has seen a lot of ups and downs over the centuries…
but it’s still standing ─ a thriving symbol of passion and beauty!